Friday, 15 January 2016

so I promise to keep my appointment in 12 months’ time…already in the diary.

blog 2 / January 2016


We were excited, even if you are not, right now, but this is what will get our camper back on the road …all fingers crossed.  Mike went on line and ordered this baby from a UK company who did not bat an eyelid at sending it all the way to us here in Brevands. There are times when Mike has to deal with the UK and this was one of them.  He was more comfortable discussing his requirements all be-it mostly on email but we have the choice of, away or home and sometimes it has to be away that gets the business, just on ease of communication…..

 
We were involved in cider making from 2008 to 2011 and we are still drinking our cider now and again as it is an acquired taste, and  has to be very cold and you need to be quite thirsty….. As we emptied the bottles I dutifully cleaned each one and stored them away just in case, one day, we may make more cider. There is however a tipping point when you have to make the decision and we had decided that we no longer need these bottles, and we no longer needed to make cider.  I put an advert on Le Bon Coin and for a whole year I had no interest then Mike saw on Anglo Info advert that a Brit ex pat in our area was looking for cider bottles……what luck. I was very reluctant to throw them away, so the cider making brit turned up and took them away and I am glad they have gone to a good home, and he gave us a bottle of wine in way of a thank you, so it was a che-ching moment all round.
On that same morning we welcomed a new Duck to our pond. Once again, on Anglo info, Mike saw an advert asking if anyone could take in a lonely white and black duck. Mike asked if I had room for another, and of cause I was delighted. As it happens the people needing to rehouse their Duck are a couple I knew when I worked briefly in the Tour business in St Mere Eglise  so it was doubly wonderful to make contact with them again and also give their lonely Duck called Peaches a new home. She has settled in well and has made me laugh with her antics, one of which is her love of swimming under water to avoid the man ducks who have fallen hopelessly in love with her. All is good and joyful out there the pond once again.
 
Eric and Gill popped through again on their way to house sit in France. They are quite committed to come and live in France and we spend many hours chatting about the whys and where’s and I just hope they make a good start and we have not put them off.  It is a well-known fact that ex pats can be a tad negative about this journey but I am sure they see through all of that and appreciate  what we have achieved, knowing what they want out of life.
 
 
 
In the olden days we might have sat around the fire and read our books,  or even sat in front of the TV, but in the new era of tablets and laptops we sat around the table playing games looking at houses on line and just surfing and sharing knowledge. I kept asking if everyone was OK bur everybody seemed very relaxed and happy.
 
 
 
 
 
I did however insist that we had a board game of scrabble and we laughed out loud when the four first words placed were the same per couple….what are the chances, we should have run down to the tabac to buy a lotto ticket …what fun.
 
 
 
We had some beautiful pics from Australia and are always happy to see that our children are happy. It is the boys summer holidays and they are out and about enjoying their time off school but they all seem well and the boys are growing so fast that we can’t keep up but OZ  suits them and we are happy about that x
 
 
 
 
 


We have sadly lost a friend this week after a long illness during which Jill fought a good fight until she could no longer.  Her treatment was extensive and long, over three years, but now her pain is over.  As Expats away from our roots we worry about the care and treatment we might need here in France and it is at times like this that we find confidence and belief that we are in good hands in our chosen lives away from home. We said our final goodbyes to Jill at the little church in Vindefontaine with fond memories of a lovely lady who we sadly knew for such a short time before she fell ill.



 
 
This is Jill with me and Shirley in 2012 at Jill and Tony’s Easter bonnet party. It rained and what was to be a party in their wood ended up in the house, I remember being the only bonnet there and I wore it all afternoon, regardless, because I could,  but as usual a good party at Rue des Fontaines with lots of laughs and plenty to eat and drink.  
 


 
 
 
One of my dilemmas in old age is teeth……I have a deep set fear of the dentist  rummaging about in my head and I have difficulty hiding this fear when sat in his chair.  A year ago my new, young and enthusiastic dentist said I needed a crown. He gave me a quote and said it will wait 6 months, see you then……. I did not go, and his temporary filling held so I was happy to ignore his quote. Mike and I had our annual check this week and we have heard that if you have a dentist pay him with gold coins because they are impossible to keep if you let the annuals drift and don’t pay up.  So we  went in and Mike got the all clear and was congratulated, but when I sat in the chair I said I did not have the courage to have the crown  work and please refill my empty cavity and set me  free………. You have to understand at this point that in the waiting room there is a sign that says. This clinic no longer takes new patients. …..  The dentist then sat down and asked me why we live in France, did we know Brighton and how come I speak French so well and this went on for perhaps 15 minutes to the point that I could not understand what the delay was, with a waiting room full of people sweating away with dental fears. He finally and slowly started work filled my huge cavity, said, next time it will have to come out and then asked to see us  next year……..I shook his hand, mine sweaty and trembling ,  thanked him with all my heart knowing  I had protected my smile for yet  another year….I hope. Oh by the way that cost us 114 Euro,  cheap at the price as we will get 60% back from the government, so I promise to keep my appointment in 12 months’ time…already in the diary.
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 
 

 

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